Behind The Scenes

Yoga For Sexual Health & Pleasure

I am sharing my behind the scenes video for my newest project a DVD on Yoga For Sexual Health & Pleasure. I've been a yogi for most of my adult life and much of that time I have practiced Tantric Yoga. Yoga has many benefits but you never hear yoga teachers talking about the sexual ones.  That's where I come in,  combining many of my favorite teachings from Ipsalu Tantra to Ecstatic Dance to pelvic floor health, creating a Solo and Couples’ practice- which connects you more deeply to your body, and your partner, resulting in more ecstatic pleasure.

Yogic practice benefits your sex life:

-Decreases stress, which increases your ability to have orgasms
-Increases flexibility, so that you can get into positions that hit different pleasure zones
-Increases lung capacity so that you can get more oxygen into your blood stream, which feeds cells responsible for arousal and helps your stamina
- Builds strength, which is great when you need to hold that positions that is sending your partner to the orgasmic cosmos
- Yoga can enhance your libido and increase your sensual awareness
- Practicing Yoga together can help you develop better communication and compassion


Mistress Morgana - Cross Dressing DO's & DON'Ts


In this episode we visit the San Francisco play space of Mistress Morgana as she guides us thru the process of cross dressing!

http://www.mistressmorgana.com   She has spent 17+ years of living as an out and proud BDSM professional, educator  and guide. She has built a practice around her passions for traditional domestic discipline, feminization, and diaper dominance,   as well as more traditional SM pursuits like inescapable bondage, precision torments and compassionate sadism. " I like to introduce novice exploreers  and veteran players alike to a style of kinky exchange that's graceful, intense, loving, and skilled"

She is owner of,  Maison de la Maitresse, San Francisco's premier private dungeon and the proud result of her commitment to BDSM exploration through instruction.



Better Orgasms - Better World with Betty Dodson



“Take your orgasms into your own hands, and you will have them for a lifetime!”

My guest today is Betty Dodson a pioneer in the field of sexuality. Watch as we discuss our self-pleasuring practices and learn more about female anatomy.  I share about my 'masturbation injury' while Betty mentors me on ways to upgrade my self pleasuring technique to avoid further injuries.  Her motto is Better Orgasms, Better World, she is a woman passionate about pleasure.  Her first book, Liberating Masturbation: A Meditation on Selflove (’74) became a feminist classic. Sex for One (’87) sold over a million copies.

Betty Dodson, artist, author, and PhD sexologist is one of the principal voices for women's sexual pleasure and health for over three decades. For 25 years, she ran Bodysex groups where women learned about their bodies and orgasms through the practice of self-stimulation. Dodson had the first one-woman show of erotic art in ’68 in nyc followed by three others. She produced and presented the first feminist slide show of vulvas at the 1973 NOW Sexuality Conference in New York where she introduced the electric vibrator as a pleasure device. In 2011, she was given the public service award from SSSS's (Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality) and the MASTERS AND JOHNSON AWARD presented by SSTAR (Society for Sex Therapy and Research)

Energy Sex and Sex Geekery With Reid Mihalko

Join Jaiya and sex educator/entertainer Reid Mihalko as they discuss what it means to be a true sex geek!  Sex Geekery aside, they also show you how to play with Sexual Energy!  It's a sex geek, sex lab, sexual good time!


How To Play With Submission and Dominance in the Bedroom

(Jaiya Receives A Lesson From A Professional Dominatrix)


Ever wondered how to get your lover to surrender into pleasure?  Have you wanted to play with themes of submission and dominance but weren't quite sure how to?  D.Love is so intrigued by the themes of submission and dominance yet, he often "tops from the bottom" as they say in the BDSM world.  So I went to see a professional dominatrix, miss Kaila Yi, to get a lesson on the arts of submission and dominance.  She got all 50 Shades on and taught me a few things that really surprised me.  Yes, in order for me to learn how to be more dominant in the bedroom I had to first learn the art of surrender and submission - not an easy thing for me, but Kaila Yi pulled it off!  Make sure to watch to the end to see our interactive session.  D.Love was so sorry he missed this one!

Guest Bio

From Kaila Yi's Website

I initially embarked upon My journey to become a Professional Dominatrix with an innocent fascination triggered by a desire to explore and more fully understand the endless possibilities of reward/punishment scenarios, humiliation, corporal punishment, fetishes, and D/s psychology. Over time, this curiosity has deepened into a profound passion, celebration and appreciation of the powerful, transcendental nature of BDSM. 

Over the years, I have been taught and mentored by legends in the scene including Midori and Mistress Simone Justice. I am proud to play with a style and fashion that is uniquely My own. I possess incredible intuition which allows Me to draw out the most profound elements of submission and servitude in your core self without mercy, sweetly savoring every moment of the exchange in the process.


 Chinese Tonic Aphrodisiacs and Sexual Energy With Ron Teegaurden

I had the great honor to interview a great herb master Ron Teegaurden, founder of Dragon Herbs.  D.Love and I took a field trip to Beverly Hills to learn everything we could about Chinese Aphrodisiacs and you get the pleasure of learning everything we did.  What berry has been used by concubines to increase sexual attraction and pleasure?  What herb "hardens the stalk"?  What do the taoist say about preserving your sexual energy for longevity?  How many times a week should we be having sex?  The answers to these questions may surprise you.  The best part of this field trip:  when Ron makes D.Love and I our own special aphrodisiac tea!  Watch out!  I have to say that this was one of my all time favorite interviews and it will go down in Sex With Jaiya history!

And I have a special offer for you!  We have many of these herbs in our on-line store and you can support our show and get great aphrodisiacs for 10% off.  Click below for specific products and use coupon code SWJ10 for 10% off! 

Changbai Mountain Ant

Goji and Schizandra Drops

FITT Schizandra

Healer's (Honeymooner's) Tea

Goji Berries

Male Silk Moth


Guest Bio:

Ron Teeguarden is the cofounder, with his wife Yanlin, and leader of Dragon Herbs. He is widely recognized as one of the foremost herbalists in America. Ron has been a professional practitioner and teacher of the holistic Asian health arts since 1971. He has been a powerful translator of Eastern philosophy and health care techniques to ten's of thousands of Americans for nearly four decades. He is recognized as the premier spokesperson for Chinese tonic herbalism in America, having spent decades teaching the concept that it is better to promote our health and well being than to become sick and then have to take remedial measures.

Ron has written two major books on Chinese tonic herbalism. His first book, Chinese Tonic Herbs, published in 1984 (Japan Publications), is a classic in the field. It is the book that introduced the art of tonic herbalism to the American public. The Ancient Wisdom of the Chinese Tonic Herbs (originally published as “Radiant Health”), published by Warner Books (Time Warner) in 1998, is recognized as a major book on the subject of Chinese longevity-herbalism. It is a must-read for those who have an interest in Chinese tonic herbs and the Asian arts of longevity and radiant health. His most recent book, 30 Tips for Living a Long and Happy Life is available now. If you read it and apply the tips, you will probably live a long and happy life! Ron has been featured in articles in Time Magazine, USA Today, the Los Angeles Times and the New York Times, and many other newspapers and magazines, and in numerous news stories on television, including features on NBC, HBO and CNN.

Ron specializes in the Chinese tonic herbs – herbs that have been used for centuries to promote longevity and radiant health. Ron has taken special interest in the adaptogenic herbs and in the art of Life Cultivation by which one can develop radiant health (“health beyond danger”). READ MORE ABOUT RON HERE!